Ready to broaden your orgasmic horizons? We asked sex experts and educators for their tips on how to orgasm—from clitoral orgasms to nipple orgasms and everything in between.

Clitoral Orgasm

Firstly, you need to know where and what your clitoris is before we can address any queries you may have concerning orgasms. You guessed it: the stimulation of the clitoris causes the clitoral orgasm. Clitoral stimulation is the most common method of generating an orgasm during intercourse for most people

Know your anatomy

According to Hynne, "the clitoris isn't just the external nub that we generally think it is." "That's only the very beginning." The clitoris, which resembles pleasure parentheses, is really a complicated wishbone-shaped structure that surrounds the vaginal entrance. Get everyone in the vicinity excited for a powerful orgasm.

Match stimulation with your arousal

The more aroused you are, the more sensitive the clitoris becomes, so you might need a lighter touch or less friction as things heat up.

Find the right toys

If clitoral stimulation is your thing, there are tons of clit vibrators designed specifically to light this area up in order to reach a female climax. Hynne suggests Dame Products’ Pom and Fin.

G-Spot Orgasm

Though sex science has gone through phases about the elusive G-spot over the years—yes, it exists; no, it's a fiction; actually, it's just part of the inner clitoris—the fact remains that there is something there, and when we pay it attention, it feels incredibly nice. When performed correctly, g-spot stimulation can result in squirting, sometimes referred to as female ejaculation.

Learn the techniques

There are three strategies to remember when it comes to activating the G-zone: come hither, squeeze, and up and down. The G-spot often requires direct stimulation to achieve orgasm, in contrast to the clitoris, which may not appreciate it.

The come-hither method is placing two fingers "against the front wall of your vagina—the side nearest your belly" and moving them in a manner that suggests, well, come hither. Now carry out the motion again. Daniels advises trying to immobilize your entire arm and just move your fingers. Try to alternate between pressing the mound of Venus and your G-zone when using the squeeze method. Look for the beat that suits you best and try to find that rhythm.

Using your palm facing up, place your middle and ring fingers into the vagina against the vaginal wall and move them toward your back to do the up-and-down method. Daniels instructs, "Now, move your entire arm with up and down movements while keeping your fingers straight." "An upright dildo can be used in place of your fingers as well."

Get the right tools

G-spot vibrators do exist, yes. "A pleasure tool with an upward curve specifically designed for G-spot stimulation, like Le Wand's Bow, made of a hard material (like stainless steel or glass) is the expressway to experiencing this type of orgasm," according to Sinclair. "Toe curling Os are yours when you combine the Bow with outward clit play from a wand vibrator." 

A-Spot Orgasm

There are two reasons why a-spot orgasms are uncommon: The A-spot's existence is mostly unknown, and its precise nature is still up for debate. Although some mistakenly believe that the A-spot stands for "anal," it really refers to the anterior fornix erogenous zone, which is higher up on the vaginal wall and situated beyond the G-spot. That makes sense—quite a distance from the anus.

Increase your arousal

According to sexologist, relationships expert, and We-Vibe sex expert Jess O'Harra, PhD, "anecdotal reports suggest that this area is associated with rapid lubrication, and it can be very sensitive to pressure, so you may want to wait until you are highly aroused before touching this area." Increased levels of dopamine, endorphins, and oxytocin can have a palliative effect on the body as arousal builds, which may account for why touch or other sensations that might feel uncomfortable in the early stages of arousal can feel overwhelmingly pleasurable as sexual excitement builds. The pituitary gland is activated during this process.

In other words, before you go looking for and experimenting with your A-spot, make sure you’re good and aroused so you’re lubricated. Or use your own favorite lube.

Master the come-hither movement

You want to be mindful of the come-hither action, much as when you achieve a G-spot orgasm. It's fantastic if you can accomplish this with your fingers! If not, bring in the finest erotic devices available.

Daniels suggests "trying a narrow dildo, a vibrator, or a G-Zone toy with a curved end." Next, use your fingers or the sex toy's tip to curl upward on the side of your vagina that is closest to your belly button, making a "come here" gesture. Start with small, gentle finger movements. This is usually sufficient to activate the A-spot. Keep your hand as close to the vaginal wall as possible. It feels a lot like the motion you make while massaging your temples with your fingers.

Get on all fours

The first thing you should do is go on all fours with your lover behind you if you want to share this orgasm with them. With their palm facing down, have your spouse put one or two fingers inside your vagina. "Ask your partner to curl their fingers downward towards your belly in the come-hither motion to stimulate the A-spot," suggests Daniels. "Ask them to start slowly, well located on the A-spot, with light pressure and relatively slow circular motions."

Cervical Orgasm

In the end,  O'Harra claims that distinguishing between cervical, vaginal, clitoral, and G-spot orgasms might be challenging. It could be challenging to focus on just one portion of the brain during sex, even though it is thought that many nerves connect with the brain depending on which area is stimulated.

When deep penetration pressure is given to the cervix, a cervical orgasm happens. Dr.  O'Harra notes that while this isn't always the case, she has "seen people suggesting that a cervical orgasm is inherently more intense, intimate, and euphoric than other types of orgasms." Whatever gives you the greatest sense of fulfillment and connection is entirely OK.

Build up to this

Although some body parts and erogenous zones are ready for either you or your partner(s) to dive in and get to stimulating, Dr.  O'Harra suggests waiting until you’re highly aroused before stimulating the cervix, because some people have reported discomfort in stimulation if arousal isn’t peak.

Use a dildo

“Use a dildo to experiment with depth and pressure on your own before involving a partner,” says Dr.  O'Harra. “The Rave is a great option for cervical stimulation, as you can rotate and rock with the asymmetrical handle.”

Get on top

During partnered sex, get on top. From here, you’re in complete control of the angle, speed, and depth of the penetration. With you at helm, you might have a better chance of reaching a cervical orgasm.

U-Spot Orgasm

You're not too far off if the U-spot makes you think of pee. According to Dr.  O'Harra, "the U-spot is located in the vulval vestibule in an upside-down U position surrounding the urethra." It's essentially the tissue that surrounds the opening where urine exits the body. The U-spot orgasm is far from a golden shower, so keep that in mind before you curl up squeamishly into a ball because you're not like water sports. a great distance. According to Dr.  O'Harra, "some people like playing with this area in conjunction with G-spot play."

Rub-a-dub

“Stimulate the U-spot by rubbing your index and middle finger on either side of the urethral opening along the vestibule,” says Dr.  O'Harra. Rubbing the “tapered tip” with a toy in a circular motion can also help get an orgasm into motion.  

Blended Orgasm

Also known as a combo orgasm, a blended orgasm results from simulating multiple areas simultaneously. In other words, there’s a lot of room for experimentation.

Multitask

“I would recommend using an internal toy with a hook, something like Arc, to apply pressure on the internal vaginal wall while using a separate toy for external stimulation to try and achieve this orgasm,” says Hynne.

Stimulate your nipples

You might use a toy like the Womanizer over the head of your clit, while you also play with your nipples,” says Dr.  O'Harra.

Explore anal

“If you’re into anal play, you might wear a butt plug during oral or intercourse, or you might experiment with anal while also playing with another area of your body,” to have a blended orgasm, says Dr.  O'Harra.

Oral Orgasm

True to its name, the oral orgasm is induced by the mouth. Whether that oral sex is fellatio, cunnilingus, or both at the same time (69!) depends on who is involved in the sexual act. “Mouth-to-genital play is a great way to explore pleasure and orgasms,” says Dr.  O'Harra.

Don’t rush it

As is the case with all sex acts, slow and steady is the way to go. “Start with slow, gentle strokes, and build the intensity and pressure as arousal builds,” says Dr.  O'Harra.

Communicate

"The path to an oral orgasm is not straightforward. Dr. O'Harra states that while some people enjoy continuous sucking, others would rather have a decent nose job with regular grinds. Thus, have a conversation with your companion. Tell them what you find satisfying and what doesn't work for you. Communication is always essential even when you're not speaking, so pay attention to your partner's breathing and body language to make sure you're constantly in agreement.

Nipple Orgasm

There’s no denying that nipples are a major erogenous zone, and for some, they’re so sensitive that the right amount of arousal and stimulation can trigger an orgasm.

Show your nipples some love

In order to have a nipple orgasm, you have to stimulate your nipples with the same attention with which you’d stimulate your clitoris—a few quick rubs won’t do the trick.

Play with different sensations

Experiment with different types of touch—some people like soft caressing or gentle tweaking with the hands while others are into sucking or even light biting with the mouth.

O-Spot Orgasm

It should be simple to locate your O-spot if you were successful in finding your G-spot. The O-spot is located on the vagina's posterior wall and is somewhat deeper than the G-spot in the opposite direction. It will feel spongy to the touch when you get there. The same nerves that are activated during anal intercourse also pass through this area. Thus, stimulating your O-spot may assist you decide whether or not to go there if you've been undecided.

Use an arced sex toy

Because we’re going deep and on the back side of the vaginal wall, it’s a good idea to have some equipment to aid you.

"Using a sex toy intended for the G-zone is the best way to execute this technique," advises Daniels. If you are by yourself, place the G-zone toy into your vagina with its tip curled downward against the rear wall to access the O-spot by lying down on your stomach. Once more, you should come-hither such that the sex toy coils up against your vagina's rear wall at the same time.

Use your partner’s fingers

If you’re exploring this with your partner, you can use a toy. But due to the angle and accessibility on their end, fingers can usually do the trick.

Daniels advises "lying on your belly or getting down on all fours with your partner positioned behind you." "Have your lover reach inside your vagina as far as they can with one or two fingers, palms up. To properly awaken it, your partner should next perform the same "come hither" action, curling their fingers upward against the rear wall of your vagina.

Anal Orgasm

An anal orgasm is the delicious result of anal play. “One of my favorite aspects of an anal orgasm is that all people have the capacity to experience it,” says Sinclair. “This is quite literally the equal opportunity orgasm.”  

Stimulate other erogenous zones

If you want to experience an anal-gasm, don’t forget to stimulate other hot spots. “Playing with your clit, nipples, or penis for a male partner, will help bring blood flow to the erogenous zones and amplify sensation,” Sinclair says.

Do not forget the lube

When it comes to a successful anal orgasm—or any type of anal play—lube is the most important component. Before you make the move to put anything inside your bum, begin by gently stimulating the area and applying lots of anal lube.

Multiple Orgasm

Just as the name suggests, a multiple orgasm is more than one orgasm in the same session. They are sometimes considered the stuff of fairytales, but as someone who has experienced them (albeit only twice), I can confirm they’re real.

Tips for All Orgasms

No matter what type of orgasm you want to experience, even in your sex dreams, there are some universal truths to help prime your body and boost your arousal.

Communicate

It's critical that you communicate throughout orgasms, regardless of the type you're experiencing. Clinical sexologist Jenny Joanes, PhD advises, "Say something if your partner is just a few inches above or below where you really like to be touched, or if things are too fast, too slow, or just not doing it for you." Sayings like "I love it when you," "It would really turn me on if you'd," or even "Can I show you something?" might help ease the awkwardness of talking about it.

Get involved

If you want an orgasm, you have to participate unless you're role-playing and expected to be totally subservient. Regardless of how well they know us, our spouses aren't psychic. Dr. Joanes advises doing whatever makes you happy, whether it's groaning, swearing, whispering, or yelling. "Having an orgasm is much easier when you're fully involved on all fronts."

Stay present

Naturally, this is easier said than done, but being fully present in the moment is the greatest way to have the finest orgasm. Dr. Joanes asserts, "There is nothing better you can do than to really get your head in the game." "Set aside thoughts of work and laundry, and concentrate only on the feelings you are feeling." After the orgasm, all that other things will be there, waiting to be addressed. Assured.